Posts from the ‘On Being…’ category

Warnings Ignored

Warning: This post is about domestic violence. I read a brave, beautifully written post over at Deliberate Donkey this weekend. It is a warning to the…

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Abuse and Promiscuity

Warning: This post talks about sexual abuse. I just read a brave guest post over at Buckwheatrisk/Behindthemaskofabuse. In this post, Kira from wrestling-life.com says: As a defensive…

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My Cold War

I watched a documentary the other day called My Perestroika about the last generation of Soviet kids to grow into young adults before the collapse of…

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On Tattoos

Daily Post prompt: Head to “Blogs I Follow” in the Reader. Scroll down to the third post in the list. Take the third sentence in the…

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Things We Can’t Talk About

Warning: this post is about child sexual abuse. I’m a pretty forthcoming blogger. There’s not much I haven’t talked about. I’ve told you how I have…

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Cheer Up, Dammit.

As you may or may not know (or will know as soon as I type the rest of this sentence), I have Major Depressive Disorder. I’m…

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Hurt: The Aftermath

Warning: This is not a nice story. In part one of Hurt, I told how my story of domestic violence came to a head. It was…

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The Keys To The City

I was born here: I think that’s where I was born anyway. Actually, I’m not sure if that is the right place since the hospital I…

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Hurt

Warning: This is not a nice story. There are so many people hurting at the hands of others. Recently, on the interwebs, I’ve encountered some courageous…

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Phobias: I Ain’t Skeered.

Phobias are interesting. Are there species besides humans that have irrational, yet all-encompassing, fears of things like walking (Ambulophobia) or fear of nudity (Gymnophobia)? No. Most…

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Identity

I’m not really a fish. I’m a person. I have a first and last name, and even one in the middle. Here, though, I am a…

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On Children

I’ve never been a fan. I don’t like their squealing, whining, quizzling (a word I made up in the post Furious Spurious Lexis) and inability to…

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Five Things I'm Good At

1. I’m good at liking things. There are certain things that I like very well. I like music, lots of it. I like art. I like…

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Insomnia

I have it. I’ve had it as long as I can remember. If I get five or six hours of uninterrupted sleep in one night, I…

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The Night That Changed My Life

The worst injury I’ve ever had was having my skull cracked open and my brain damaged. It changed everything about me forever. I had to drop…

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Graphic Design Myths

I’m a graphic designer, which really, has to be one of the worst office jobs in the world and here’s why. I could design that myself.…

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On Being Dead

My first experience with death was when I died, although I don’t remember it. I had pneumococcal meningitis as an infant and died a hundred times.…

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Glossophobia

I have been on stage before, but I try not to ever think about it. Being on stage falls into the “things that keep me up…

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On Being Left-Handed

I went to a comedy show the other day. I am not a fan of comedy shows. It’s partly because they’re rarely actually funny and partly…

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In The Middle

I’ve claimed on this blog before that I’m poor. Well, apparently, I’m not. According to the republic of California, I make enough money to be charged…

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On Being Single

Most of the time, it doesn’t bother me. I quietly listen to stories of friends about how annoying or awesome their significant others are and watch…

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On Being Finnish

For most of my life, being of Finnish descent meant having a last name chock full of vowels that no one can spell nor pronounce; possessing…

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Crazy

Yes, I am. For a number of reasons, which I won’t enumerate at the moment, I am seeking professional assistance with my brainpan. My brainpan, more…

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Synesthesia

Yes, I have it. Synesthesia is an involuntary, neurological phenomena where any of your five senses work in collaboration, for instance, tasting words or seeing letters…

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Bad Brain Days

So You Want To Be A Writer From sifting through the madness for the Word, the line, the way by Charles Bukowski if it doesn’t come…

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On Being Unemployed

Last Friday at 4:55 PM, I got a phone call from my boss telling me that the company had been sold and I was out of…

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